Are you playing life too safe? A lot of guys do. They stick to the same 9 to 5 for decades. They never travel outside of 5 miles from their homes. They haven’t had more than 2 dates in their entire life because they were “too hurt” from the first time a girl ever told them no.
And one day, they wake up and realize there are 65 candles on the cake. That’s 65 years they’ll never get back.
Yes, it’s never too late to start living, but they should have done that when they could still walk up two flights of stairs without reaching for an oxygen tank.
And they never got the girl.
The sad part is that the girl was always out there. Always.
But as I said, it’s never too late. Not for you, it isn’t.
The Dating Pool Is Inconceivably Large
There are around 8 billion people in the world today, last I checked Google. Of that 8 billion, about 4 billion, or half, are women.
There are around 167 million women in the United States alone, a certain percentage of whom are single and in your age group. But even if you could, for argument’s sake, date every single woman in America regardless of age or status, you’re still left with well over 3.8 billion women.
When you actually think about it, the number of people on earth today is mindblowing.
Is it so unfathomable then, that you could hit it off with a considerable number of women of varying nationalities if you made it your life’s goal?
Could your soulmate, your one true love, be someone you don’t even know exists? Who is, right at this moment, in some city of some country you can’t even point out on the map?
That is certainly something to ponder.
You Don’t Know What You’re Missing
Our inability to see opportunity when it is right in front of us is one of the great misfortunes in life.
There are around 50 million single men in the United States alone. One of the reasons they are single is that they don’t like what they see in the women around them.
I’m not saying all men are like this, but if I saw women as high-maintenance, power-tripping control freaks, I wouldn’t want to date them either.
It’s unfortunate because not all women are like that. And it’s not very likely that these men will change their minds — unless they travel.
A man can lament all day long that the women around him are too different from the woman he wants. But that’s because his experience with women is far more limited than he makes it out to be.
If he were to go online, he would discover that there are so many women on earth who could be his type. He will realize that there are women who would love him just the way he is.
All he needs to do is go out and meet them.
Why You Should Go Online AND Travel
The best and most efficient way to meet and date a foreign woman consists of two steps.
The first step is to get on a reputable dating site, fill out your preferences, and begin your communication there. It’s the fastest, most cost-effective way to meet people abroad bar-none. If you don’t have chemistry with one woman, then you can begin communication with another one without ever having to leave your house.
While there are a plethora of dating sites out there, I recommend going with matchmaking companies that have local offices in the country of your interest. These companies vet their users thoroughly, mitigating the risk of insincere matches or scammers.
Because of their expansive infrastructure, these companies offer travel arrangements and tours so you can meet your matches in person.
Traveling is the second and vital step in your journey. After all, how do you know if your chemistry is real if you don’t meet the person and spend time with her face to face?
Fulfill those two steps and you can write your own story however you want to.
For once in your life, be brave. The world is now too small for you not to try. If she’s out there, then you owe her and yourself that chance.
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